This is the career advice I always give: Say what you want. Out loud. In writing. On Facebook. In your phone. On a Post-It note. Be really clear about what you are looking for and what you really, truly want. And this is where we tend to get hung up—on the part about being really clear. It’s surprisingly harder than you might think to know what you want—and then to say it out loud. Most of us shy away from telling people what we really, truly want. We often tell people the “r