I like to get my to-do list done. I even draw little boxes next to my to-do items, so I can experience the satisfaction of putting a big fat check mark in the box when I finished my task. The problem is that the list never goes away for good, and sometimes I don’t allow myself to relax until everything on the list is done. This stuff HAS to get done; otherwise, I won’t have a car to drive, money in the bank or food for the dog. It didn’t occur to me that I had any other optio